Women everywhere are always expected to continually imagine what one situation or another would look like from a male point of view. Men are almost never expected to do the same for women. So deeply internalized is this pattern of behavior that many men react to any suggestion that they might do otherwise as if it were itself an act of violence. David Graeber
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Women are expected to imagine what men think and feel. This is because women are the ones who need to be protected and taken care of. But, men are the ones who need to protect and take care of women. This is why it is important that both genders should understand each other better and be more sensitive towards each other.

Source: The Utopia Of Rules: On Technology, Stupidity, And The Secret Joys Of Bureaucracy

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